31 Ways to become The Proverbs 31 Woman

#10 Have an emotional bond with your husband

Verse 23: Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.

A man loved by his wife oozes high levels of self esteem and his self worth shows forth effortlessly. The Proverbs 31 woman does not step on her man’s ego and neither does she walk all over his self respect. To earn a pass mark in this area, here are some helpful tips.

According to Tom and Debi,  in the article,  10 Hindrances to Cultivating a Romantic Vineyard , “a husband considers romance to be one way and the wife considers it to be another. The wife provides many romantic gestures which go unnoticed by her husband, because it wasn’t romantic to him. The husband can spend precious time doing what he thinks will bless and romance his wife only to discover she didn’t appreciate it at all.

What is wrong? Are the gestures extended not romantic or thoughtful? No.  Are the recipients ungrateful and self-absorbed? No. The spouse is simply not romancing their spouse in a way that is romantic to them! This is a great truth that once practiced is sure to produce lasting fruit. Study your spouse. Find out what romance means to them? It may surprise you! But if you do your homework you will become the master of what really turns your spouse on!

Discuss the following list below with your husband. Ask him to check the ones most meaningful and then arrange them in order of importance to him. Use this list as a basis for learning his views. Your relationship can be greatly strengthened as you use the suggestions, which work for your marriage —but keep in mind that these are only suggestions —not all or any of them have to be used.”

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